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I've been occasionally cruising on the casual for a number of years and have been very fortunate to have had some really amazing encounters with several awesome women. And, to my surprise, I have found that that most of these ladies married or not, were mostly unhappy and feel neglected and unfulfilled by their significant other. Kind of makes sense when you realize that when a woman is really happy and fulfilled in a relationship, she usually isn't looking around on for someone else. That's just the way they're wired. Anyway, here is the thing that continuously surprises me about my experiences. When I had sex with them, all of them, married or single, always told me that they didn't know sex could be that good and that I was the best they have ever had. I'm not exaggerating! And I'm not the hunky hard body Pitt type either! From what I can tell, it seems that most men either don't care or don't have a as to what it takes to really move a woman in bed. Yeah, there are some that can fuck the brains out of a woman for 5 or 10 minutes but that's usually it. Most woman are left unfulfilled. It seems very few guys understand that what a woman craves is intimacy. . . kissing, caressing, holding, massaging, and talking. A lot of men seem to be incapable of that for some reason. Are they so selfish or clueless that they can't or don't care to figure out what really a woman in bed? Really, I'm amazed at how many unfulfilled women there are out there. Most women generally are more emotional than when it comes to sex in my experience. When I'm with a woman, time allowing, it's usually for hours and hours and I take my time making it all about her, not me. I can spend hours just giving her a massage. Don't get me wrong, I like to be satisfied by a woman as much as any other guy. But what I have come to realize is that if I've worked my loving magic effectively, she instinctively wants to return it to me just as much and does. I attain this by not treating her like a piece of meat for starters. I talk to her and show her that I'm interested in getting to know who she is as a person. I'm not or pushy or anything like that. I just make a point to show her that I care about her and that I'm interested in fulfilling her desires and needs before my own. Most women love to talk and get to know something about each other and so do I. Here's another thing that used to surprise me. The majority of the women I've been with, married and single, have little as to how a dick works or how to give a decent blow job. Most are good kissers though and are usually surprised when they kiss me as I'm always told that I'm the best kisser they've ever had. Most women desperately want to please their partner, but quite a few of them just don't know how. And most are way too insecure and shy to actually ask a guy what he likes and how to please him, let alone tell a guy what she likes and how to please her. If a woman is giving me a blowjob and obviously has no what she is doing, I caringly talk to her and show her what I like. I don't demean her or make her feel stupid for not knowing. I just tell her, "hey, let me show you what works for me" and I show her what I like to do to myself. In my experience, a lot of women just don't know where the erogenous places are on a dick and are really appreciative that I take the time to show them. And when I'm giving her oral, on the occasions that I'm not having much success getting her off to my satisfaction, I'll ask her to tell me what she likes. Even then it's hard to get some of them to do it. Anyway, both men and women, take the initiative to learn what your partner likes. I was recently with a really awesome woman who had been married for over 30 years and after it was over, I was told again that she had no idea that sex could be that good. With her ex-husband, she very rarely had an orgasm, and it was usually just the quick , bam, thank you mam kind of sex where he got off and she felt like a neglected piece of meat at the end. . . typical. But here is the really remarkable part. . . it was miraculously easy to make her cum. It wasn't the slamming hard stuff that got her off. It was the really slow and light stuff in and near the opening of her pussy that really got her off. So because it took less effort on my part to get her off, I could go without the need to stop and catch my breath for as long as I wanted. I've been with several women who can have multiple , but never anyone like this incredible woman. To my surprise, this was the first time she had ever experienced multiples before so both she and I were completely surprised at how easy it was to get her off. So when we were together the second time, we decided to see just how many she really could have. She told me she couldn't take it anymore at 35. These were 35 separate rolling climaxes too! We didn't keep track of the number of actual there were in each roll, but I'm guessing there were between 4 and 10 for each roll. The harder I got during one of the rolls the more actual she would have. You do the . Simply astonishing! Lastly, let me say this. . . I'm not the hard body tall dark and handsome hunky type either. I'm short, somewhat over weight, and over 50 years old. So, all you woman, and old, who thumb your up at people like me because I don't look like Pitt or George Clooney, maybe you should consider that maybe you are passing up and that you are missing out on something really special. . . just a thought. Thanks for reading. Write me back and tell me what you think! |